16 Ways to Find a Wife According to the Bible

As a pastor, over the years I had my fair share of people approach me to find out if we were a "courtship" church or a "dating" church. The people invariably would tell me that their approach was "the biblical way." The following list has been floating around the world-wide-web and makes a very important point. So here it is: 16 ways to find a wife according to the Bible.

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10 Practical Ways to Help People Who Are Hurting

Sometimes it's hard to find the right words when someone you care about is suffering. Still, there are plenty of ways you can be supportive in painful circumstances. After my son died in a skiing accident at the age of sixteen, people reached out to me in a multitude of ways. When you don’t know what to say or do to help people who are hurting, try these 10 practical tips.

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The Importance of Compatibility in Romantic Relationships

Much is made these days about compatibility when it comes to romantic relationships. One popular Christian dating website offers seven types of compatibility, including the nebulous “Personality Compatibility.” Scripture clears away the complexity by giving us only three areas with which we must concern ourselves regarding compatibility in romantic relationships.

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A Pastor’s Reflections on Rosaria Butterfield’s “The Gospel Comes with a House Key”

Today the world’s mentality is, if you want to get something done, you have to protest, march, boycott, or do something to wield power and influence to promote your agenda. In her most recent book, “The Gospel Comes with a House Key,” Rosaria Butterfield encourages Christians to simply open their homes to everyone and anyone as a means by which to share the love of Christ and the gospel.

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Want Abundant Life? It Only Grows on the Solid Rock (the Third Day of Creation)

So many of us are unhappy because we don’t know why we exist. God pours out love-gifts of sun and breath, food and family, and we don’t see him. We are dying, and we don’t want our lives to end. We don’t know where we are going, nor how to get there. Here’s why it is possible to find deep joy even in the most vicious trials of this life. 

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