2 Good Things to Remember When You Struggle with Change

My life seems to be changing at a faster pace than usual. If it were possible, it seems as though someone pushed fast-forward on the movie of my life. I took my oldest to the pediatrician for his annual visit and learned that he is 5 foot 11. How did that happen? Last I checked, he was still five years old and playing with Matchbox cars.

I look in the mirror each morning, and new lines and spots seem to have appeared overnight. Not only that, but ever since I hit forty, my body has become a traitor. Every year there’s some new physical issue to deal with, some new thing that needs medical attention. The world and culture around me often seem like a snowball rolling down hill, growing bigger and stronger and unstoppable. I often feel out of place and out of touch. I wonder, how did I get here?

I don’t know about you, but I’m not such a big fan of change—especially when it comes to change I don’t have control over. I certainly like new experiences, as long as they are ones I’ve pursued and chosen, and that they arrive at a time that best suits me. In truth, I like to know what to expect. I like to be prepared. I like when things are manageable. I don’t like to be overwhelmed or uncertain or ill-prepared.

And so, with my life in fast-forward mode, I’m clinging to what is certain and steady and looking to the horizon to keep me afloat in the whirlwind. In the midst of all the changes of life, here are two good things to remember about God, the One who never changes.

1. Our God never changes.

Unlike our lives, the Bible tells us that God never changes:

“For I the LORD do not change; therefore you, O children of Jacob, are not consumed.” (Mal. 3:6)

The same God who spoke and light broke into the darkness is the same God who rescued his people from slavery. The same God who chose Mary to bear our Savior is the same God who met Peter on the shores of Galilee and said, “Feed my sheep” (John 21:17). The same God who gave grace to David in his sin is the same God who forgives us when we cry out in repentance. Yesterday, today, and forever, he remains the same. 

The God who greeted Moses in Exodus 34 with “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness, keeping steadfast love for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin” does not change in his character. No matter how much time passes, no matter what is going on in the world, our God—who he is—does not change. That means we can trust him to always be steadfast in faithfulness, generous in love, and rich in mercy. He is always good and always does what it right and just. 

2. God’s word never changes.

Because God never changes, what he says does not change. Everything in his word remains true for all eternity. All that Scripture tells us about our world, our fall into sin, and what God did to save us, will never change. What the Bible tells us about who we are, what we need, and how God provides it, will never change. People’s agreement with Scripture—or not—has no impact on God’s word, for it is firmly fixed forever:

Forever, O LORD, your word is firmly fixed in the heavens.” (Ps. 119:89)

Into all eternity, God’s word remains:

“Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will not pass away.” (Matt. 24:35)

This means that all God’s promises for us will never change as well. When everything is changing around us, and it feels like we are riding in some kind of crazy spinning tilt-a-whirl, God’s promises to us in his word steady us in the tumult:

For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Rom. 8:38–39)

I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. (Phil. 1:6)

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9)

Change is part of life. Some change is good—the kind we look forward to and have long prayed for. Sometimes change comes into our life and knocks us over. There may even be seasons of life where changes come at us more quickly than we can respond. But no matter the change, we can find rest and peace in our God who never changes. He remains trustworthy and faithful. His word and promises anchor us. Let us look to him. 

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Christina Fox is a speaker, editor, writer, blogger, and author of several books including A Heart Set Free: A Journey to Hope Through the Psalms of Lament and Closer Than a Sister: How Union with Christ Helps Friendships to Flourish. You can find her at www.christinafox.com.

This article is adapted from “For Those Who Struggle with Change” at christinafox.com.


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