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It's Chemistry! Practical Advice for Protecting Your Marriage from an Affair

We hear stories of pastors having extramarital affairs, and we wonder how that could happen. Of course he knew better—he is a pastor! Well, most of the time, we can bet that sexual chemistry ignited the fuse. Here is some practical advice for protecting your marriage—and the marriages of others—from an affair.

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16 Ways to Find a Wife According to the Bible

As a pastor, over the years I had my fair share of people approach me to find out if we were a "courtship" church or a "dating" church. The people invariably would tell me that their approach was "the biblical way." The following list has been floating around the world-wide-web and makes a very important point. So here it is: 16 ways to find a wife according to the Bible.

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The Importance of Compatibility in Romantic Relationships

Much is made these days about compatibility when it comes to romantic relationships. One popular Christian dating website offers seven types of compatibility, including the nebulous “Personality Compatibility.” Scripture clears away the complexity by giving us only three areas with which we must concern ourselves regarding compatibility in romantic relationships.

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Are Short-Term Friendships Worth the Investment?

There are times in life when you may have to decide if you’re going to invest in a friendship or if you’re going to let the opportunity (and effort it takes) pass you by. It’s a realistic dilemma. We all have a limited amount of time, after all, and can therefore only keep up a select number of relationships well. Are short-term friendships worth the investment?

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